The secret to better AI prototypes: Why Tinder’s CPO starts with JSON, not design | Ravi Mehta (product advisor, previously EIR at Reforge)
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Ravi Mehta (00:00:00): The framework I like to use with product leaders that I'm coaching is to think about a matrix. Your ideal goal is to lead in a scalable way, which means you feel really confident about the direction of your team and your team has the autonomy to move in that direction....
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don't feel confident in the direction that your team is moving, the right answer is not to be hands-off and to let them go in that wrong direction. The right answer is to micromanage, but do it in...
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Ravi Mehta (00:04:14): Oh, thank you. That means a lot. I've been a fan of all of your work as well. I've been following the podcast. It's been great to see how it's...
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Ravi Mehta (00:38:31): Yeah, so there were two thi...
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Ravi Mehta (00:04:00): Yeah, thank you for having me. I'm excited to be here. Lenny (00:04:02): So I've been a huge fan of your writing for a long time....
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Ravi Mehta (00:45:13): Yeah, I think as part of the strategy, you'll typically have some quantifiable...
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