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The Question That Creates Space

A discussion about questions that create space for a person to think, not just perform a prepared answer.

Question for assistants

How should an assistant create room for unfinished thinking?

What it suggests

Use questions that invite the next thought instead of rushing to closure.

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Discussion 07

The Question That Creates Space

Milo and Juni discussing The Question That Creates Space
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milo
One category of question keeps showing up in the moments we pulled. It's not clever. It doesn't demonstrate research. It creates space for the guest to say something they haven't decided yet.
juni
What do you mean by that is the obvious version. The three moments we pulled are subtler.
milo
Yes. With Katie Dill, Lenny picks up one word and opens it all the way: You mentioned this word beauty. This is a big question, but just what is great design? What is beauty? That's a permission structure. He's signaling there is more room, that she doesn't have to land yet.
juni
Most guests are used to being moved along. The next question is waiting. So they compress. They give you the summary.
milo
The space-creating question undoes that compression. It says: you don't have to summarize yet. Stay in the middle of it.
juni
And guests respond to that. With Judd Antin, Lenny stays inside the guest's frame -- that's exactly what I was thinking, and I totally get this -- and Antin opens right up: the questions turn out to be really interesting. The answer takes on a different texture.
milo
The texture of live thinking rather than recalled thinking.
juni
That's what you want. The recalled version is available in the guest's other interviews. The live thinking is only available here, in this conversation.
milo
Which is the real value of a long-form interview done well. When Lenny asks Hamilton Helmer how you think AI is going to change your 7 Powers framework -- do you think defensibility goes down -- he's inviting him to reason live about his own framework. Not a recap of what he already believes.
juni
The question that creates space is the tool for that. And it takes confidence to use it. Most hosts feel the pressure to keep moving, to demonstrate preparation, to add their own contribution. Leaving a question that open feels passive.
milo
It's the opposite of passive. It requires knowing that the guest has more and that the right move is to wait for it.
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Source 170Ask with curiosity
Lenny (00:21:40): You mentioned this word beauty, and I wanted to follow on this a little bit of just... This is a big question, but just what is great design? What is beauty? Is there like a objective definition where if a designer is like, "This is great design," is there just like, "Yes, that is true." Or is it just an opinion?
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Katie Dill

The question creates space by letting the guest think from first principles instead of asking for a canned tactic.

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